Rachel Leviss is open to the potential of discovering love, however she has new guidelines.

On Thursday, June 27, the Vanderpump Guidelines alum received candid about her love life on her Rachel Goes Rogue podcast and revealed why she believes she’s in a greater place to pursue courting. 

With summer season in full swing, Leviss stated she feels “able to date” and has “gotten my life so as sufficient the place I am open to that.” 

“I am trying ahead to it. I am in search of somebody who’s secure and dependable and emotionally mature, emotionally steady, and somebody who’s gonna deal with me proper,” she defined. 

Although she hopes to manifest a “enjoyable summer season fling that would result in one thing extra severe,” Leviss revealed that she want to date to “broaden my very own expertise” and “study extra about myself.”

Now that she has a brand new strategy to courting, the previous actuality star stated that she has new guidelines relating to getting intimate with a possible suitor. 

“I undoubtedly would not sleep with somebody on the third date, particularly as a result of I have already got a repute,” she added, referencing her previous affair with former costar Tom Sandoval. “[I] do not want individuals making assumptions about me being simple.”

Throughout her two-month keep at a psychological well being facility when her affair with Sandoval made headlines, Leviss stated that her therapists inspired her “to not sleep with any person” till they’ve been courting for “at the least” two months. 

“I attempted this courting expertise with the brand new person who approached me and requested me on a date. I deliberately wished to take it gradual,” she recalled, referencing her previous tendencies to maneuver quick along with her romantic pursuits. She referred again to her ex-fiancé James Kennedy and the way their relationship “changed into one thing extra” after a “one evening stand.”

“After which with Tom, it was prefer it was a secret relationship that I used to be considering with my coronary heart and never logically,” Leviss continued. “I wished to have intercourse, and we did. So perhaps it is like a balancing act.”

Whereas some might imagine ready three months earlier than intercourse “could also be somewhat excessive,” she famous how practising abstinence allowed her to get to know her date “on a deeper stage” and added, “I do take pleasure in deep conversations.”

In April, Leviss was linked to businessman Matthew Dunn after her headline-making affair with Sandoval turned public. On the time, her publicist instructed PEOPLE that their romance was nonetheless in its early levels.

“It is somewhat too quickly to leap to any labels,” her rep stated. “They met somewhat over a month in the past and are mates simply attending to know one another. They met and are hanging out.”

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The brand new relationship comes after the tv persona opened up about her resolution to take a break from courting amid the fallout of Scandoval.

“I am not courting for a 12 months, and in doing that, I am simply specializing in myself and after this discuss, specializing in my feelings that come up for me, like what are my very own wants that I would like met, and never including a further individual into the equation, in order that it’s simply targeted on me and different individuals as properly my family and friends and the individuals which are in my interior circle which are secure mates,” she shared on an episode of her Rachel Goes Rogue podcast in January.